Originally posted by MissElizabeth87:
I've seen that most people on here are agnostic or atheist
Not everyone, nor are all religious people here Christian, I'm not. But I attend services and sing in the choir.

I don't have so much of a problem with faith and bdsm because it's pretty much like everything else in life, you have people at the extremes and everywhere in between. We don't all have to agree 100% with each other. There are plenty of folks here in committed relationships and those who have several different partners. You cannot condemn a whole way of life because of what some people do. If you did wouldn't you have to condemn Christianity for the actions of Jimmy Swaggart and/or Pat Hagerty?

Personally, I don't think you have anything to worry about. So what if you two like sex a little rough (or however you do it)? If what you do the night before church is between two committed people, and is safe and consensual, you don't have anything to be ashamed about.

In the end the decision is yours, together with your partner.