To me, being a feminist means doing what I want, what makes me happy.
If that means subbing to a man - so be it.

In my eyes, feminism means being able to do what you, as a woman, want.
It does NOT stand for doing everything like a man, or better.
It does NOT mean treating men in general like shit because they are "the enemy".
What most of that fraction of manhaters donīt get is the illogic of their own argumentation: "You men treated us like slaves for xyz years, therefore you still are all assholes."
If you try to counterpoint that, as a man, with "you women accepted being treated like slaves for xyz years, therefore you still all WANT to be treated like that".
Duh. They wonīt get the irony, most of the time.
Why donīt they get that persons donīt want to be judged by the action of others (who are, by the way, mostly long dead)?

Some of those so-called feminists were the only ones who gave me a REALLY hard time when I started to live my desires. They called me a traitor, and worse. Sleeping with a vanilla man would have been bad enough, but admitting to like getting whipped and used? HELL AND DAMNATION!!!

They lost all respect from my side. They simply donīt get it. I think they should start to get some happiness into their own private lives instead of sneaking into and judging the choices of others!

Ok, end of rant. *lol*