I agree with Oz, I'm a take-charge guy. If a situation arises, even if everyone around me is a stranger, I tend to get things organized. It's my parents' fault; they wanted all of their kids to be leaders and strong personalities. We are... you should hear my sis and me, arguing in the kitchen!

I was having sexual thoughts as far back as I remember. My big brother helped me realize and focus on things; when I was 12, he was 25 with a wife and a wonderful porn collection, all BDSM... and I found myself.

Since, I sublimated my needs for years; wife was vanilla and no time to look. 30 years of being a General Manager of staffs from 30 to almost 300 kept me busy directing, conducting, leading. Many on the staffs were natural subs, and anything that we told them, they jumped to do. As I got older and time became freer, I gained a wonderful understanding spouse, still vanilla, though. She knows my Dom needs, and welcomes my activities with my Rose.

And she takes my breath away... maybe that's the ticket. I get the pleasure of her growth and success. I can watch her progress, and know when I close my eyes at night that I have made a difference in the world. And each morning as I look in the mirror to shave, I know that there are people needing my leadership and domination. As the way I share my love with the world.