I quoted this part b/c let me tell you I know EXACTLY what you're talking about. A lot of the women that worked in the organizations that I was working in did the same thing...I was a traitor, I was undermining all the work women have done since the 1920's. Women like me are the reason it took so long to get an equal work-equal pay amendment, etc.
And there are definitely extremists in the feminism group, the manhaters; the over-senstives...(one woman got upset b/c my Owner called me baby, honey, and said "come here woman i want a kiss" and she FLIPPED....but she gets mad when my stepbrother calls me chick...)
I've had to withdrawal from organizations, ideals and things I enjoyed immensely b/c of some of these people b/c they found out, or ran into me outside of these things, or even went so far as to call some friends and ask very private questions b/c they were "worried" about me and wanted to find out why i was...blah blah blah...
I've lost a lot of respect for some of these people, and some of the 'movement' perpetrates.