What makes you...

[Ozme52]

Why are Doms so cheap with insight into their psyche?

I wouldn't call it cheap...

Besides... economically speaking the rarer the commodity, the more highly valued it becomes.

Perhaps we (male) doms are just more private... it seems right in line with the queston gemmy asked a while back about sharing ourselves in pictures.

[Karesch]

I really don't know to offer a deep psychologically revealing answer to this question... I just Know, with every fibre of my being, that I'm a Dom. I always have been. My entire personality is just wrapped up in it and interlaced with it. I have a very strong, very self assured, very commanding sort of presence and personality. I don't feel like I Have to be in charge of anything, I just end up being in charge of alot of the situations I'm in. All my life people have just turned to me for guidance and direction... I don't know how else to explain it... I don't know if I was born this way, made this way by the interactions I've had throughout my life or what the case is, I just know it is what it is.

Sexual Sadism is another aspect of my personality that I can't really credit to anything, it just is who I am. Everything inside me just enjoys... biting, flogging, paddling, spanking... all of it. I've been in relationships that pushed the borders of the extreme for S&M, and I've yet to find somebody that had an appetite for recieving pain that outdid my own ability to dish it. The only thing that's stopped such things has been common sense, not hard limits.

Don't know if any of that helps though...

K