Well sis the boss of me, (my owner lol) says and i do agree, that we each fit in our proper place, he dominats me into submission and i love him for it as much as he loves me to submit, its deffinetly a two way street,
and mabey thats just how it is for yu two, i have opinions etc and he does listen to me, he is very understanding, but when push comes to shove, its allways me on my knees in the end (weg)
i constantly test him in many different ways even after all these years, he says it helps keep him strong, (though truth be told i allways know i will yield in the end) i cant help but know and feel his strength his overbearing presence and it is comforting to me.
his dominance of me, the fact he knows all my deepest innner feelings as if by majic, it all adds up, .......conversely with men that dont take charge i kinda react a little wierd myself, its like i overcompansate for any lack of dominace i sence in them with my own behavior, somrtimes to the point of getting in trouble though recently i have been trying to channel such feelings in a more nurturing fashion