AdrianaAurora,

There is a great deal of power associated with withholding information.

The less you know about a person, the less power you have over them. If you understand a person's motivations or needs, you are capable of using that information to manipulate that person.

Asking a person who loves power and indulges that love to divulge such information is more than a little presumptuous.

Hence the spankings.