Quote Originally Posted by Forced2Fuck View Post
I Absolutey love your outlook on a dom/sub relationship! And it was incredibly well expressed as well. I'm frustrated with my exploration into this lifestyle by the need for physical restraints and inflicting physical pain as a necessary means to dominate. Having experienced an entirely psychological dominant/submissive relationship - where I simply knew I had to do as I was told ( when I was TOLD ) and obeyed simply out of a desire to demonstrate the breadth of my love for him I wonder why no 'doms' I meet now want to 'do things that way'. You have a lovely way of looking at dominance and I wish to hear from someone such as yourself - why must restraints and pain be employed to elicit submission in a satisying way for most Dom's?

My apologies for posting this question to you here. It misdirects the thread I know.. but hoping for you'll address my question as I respected your perspective and insight.
A very interesting question, I will make sure to get Him to answer you back, weg.

Not to be fooled though, He does love practicing His bondage technique and His love of canes is well documented at this site (and if you are interested in more of His philosophy and have masochistic inclinations - to suffer my writing- you can skim through my blog, lol), though true He never needed those to ensure my submission. I don't know how to put it in words more descriptively, but I say that He dominated me through sheer force of His personality, I think He is just wired that way and while its rare He isn't the only one.