http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...t=sexual+abuse
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...t=sexual+abuse
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...t=sexual+abuse
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...t=sexual+abuse
There are a few threads that offer support for those here who have gone through abuse and also some threads that are about bdsm vs abuse and the differences.
Also, Google "sexual abuse and bdsm" the first website that comes up at leather and roses has some great articles about this. I particularly enjoyed the one entitled "Bdsm and Child abuse" by Raven. But there are many different ones on several aspects of abuse.