Sex doesn't always have to mirror what happens in the whole relationship. There are times of sweet lovemaking, but I prefer hair pulling and dirty talk because it really turns me on to be his slutty little ass fuck. The rest of the time, there isn't name-calling because that would just be hurtful and serve no good purpose. In fact, he does his best to ensure that I feel good about myself, even when I know I have wronged him.

You were disrespectful to everyone here by making assumptions about whether or not we're conscious of what we're doing and whether or not we know what happiness is. Everyone's entitled to their opinions, but I felt that what you said was not in the spirit of open discussion but rather argumentative and narrow-minded.

I tolerate different opinions. What I don't tolerate is disrespect. In the future, you might want to try not coming across as preaching that we must all be ignorant, angry, depressed, unhappy people who seek out abuse because we don't know what love is.