wellcome to the site
you may find some here that share your intrests, i am also sure you will find plenty of people that are going to be a little judgemental, i am sure you are used to it, it is as far as i can muster the extreme end of aristotles golden mean conserning dignity and humiliation that you are fantasizing about
my only reccomendation is that it remain indeed a fantasy, as the life of another human being would be involved
the forums are full of great information on bdsm, as well as having a very nice personels section and chatroom
feel free to pm any of the staff or myself with conserns or questions, we are more than willing to lend a hand
i shall reserve my own judgements
for actions speak louder than words
your friendly nieghborhood kajira
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