Greetings From A Perculiar Scumbag

[VaAugusta]

If you do this IRL just be careful about the pregnancy one you mentioned, since you're effecting someone who's not a willing participant.

[Dunccc]

I've been a reader of this site for a long time and just registered to the forums today out of boredom; having glanced through a thousand worthless internet forums over the years I wasn't expecting anything other than AOL speak and spam. But I've been incredibly impressed at the level of open-mindedness and the quality of posting shown, especially in a thread like this which could easily have been greeted with derision, hostility or abuse.

So, hello everyone!

And to the original poster: I'm not sure that the experiences you seek are really as rare as you think, many of the stories here bear testament to the fact that lots of people share similar fantasies. Also, films made by people/firms such as Max Hardcore, Insex, MFX etc often display similar themes of extreme degradation, and they sell a lot of material to a lot of people, both dominant and submissive. I'm sure you'll eventually find what you're looking for if, as you say, you're seeking these experiences within the context of a loving and mutually rewarding relationship.

[IAmCanadian]

If you do this IRL just be careful about the pregnancy one you mentioned, since you're effecting someone who's not a willing participant.

Just felt the need to reply to this one.

Obviously, in all cases the woman would be a willing participant. I'm an enlightened sadist, not a sociopath. If you mean the baby that might result, I certainly have no intention of forcing pregnancy-related degradation on someone who isn't already pregnant or willing to become so (and subsequently treat that pregnancy like any other). I'm sure nothing bad would befall the baby as a result. This sort of play is 90% mental.

Such things all seem non-consensual because in "normal" society no right-thinking woman would ever consent to such things. In the dark corners of the mind though, and safely cloistered away in under the supervision of a certain person, some women are perfectly willing to consent to, and be mercilessly complicit in, their own degradation.

That's what I'm looking for.

- FS

EDIT: This thought almost made me laugh out loud- I'm not sure what scientists are currently saying about the effects of external noises on babies when they are in-utero, but if tone of voice (speaking harshly instead of soothingly, for example) is something that affects an unborn child, then verbally abusing a pregnant woman might be actually be a discouraged pre-natal practice for doms and their wives. Hell, for all I know, it is! Has anyone written "BDSM For Pregnant People" yet?