I would also like to thank MacGuffin and Bipolar for thier wisdom.
There are many different ways to look at it.
Sometimes appearences are decieving.
I would like to say this:
The girl that is in the middle of the room, sometimes the center of attention, who apears overly flirtasious or forward, who apears to be "working the crowd", may be preforming multiple purposes by design, more so than just trying to be a self serving slut in the pursuit of cybersex.
It is dificult not to brand that which we misunderstand becuase our perspective is of course limited by our own experiences.