lol wow you should have seen Master's face when i first brought the idea up. He lit up like a kid in a candy shop lol :-P But then He sat there and had me then and there tell Him everything i wanted, expected out of the relationship, and immediatly did research on how to safely and effectively go about this type of relationship. It was so amazing watching Him dedicate so much time and effort into little old me ;-) But really you'd be suprised what communicating can do