nope im not a feminist, im a woman in a mans AND womans world.
im not sure there actually is such a thing as feminism anymore at least not in the way it was originally the militant type if you want to call it that, like many things its become a part of society and life now and women are accepted as equals except by the odd few idiots who want to put on an act of ''manliness'' and even then id say they're bullys rather than anti-equal rights as such.
if there's such a thing as feminism these days then how come there isnt a ''masculinism''? because very often in todays society men are the ones who are often considered and treat as the weaker sex with less rights! by less rights i mean in the way of what they are expected to do/not do how to treat a woman/not treat her...if that makes any sense?
feminism was originally about women fighting for the right to be equal, have the vote, have the right to speak for themselves,have equal opportunities etc well as far as im aware we have that dont we? in fact we're usually the ''revered'' and most respected of the two sexes in general.
and in relation to bdsm i can never quite understand how the two could ever possibly be connected or questioned, because women have the right to choose whether or not they wish to be submissive or Dominant and unless in an abusive r/ship and forced into submission (which is a totally seperate issue from bdsm) then they're choosing to submit of there own free will they are able to make that choice because they have the right the freedom and the confidence to do so.
am probably going off at a tangent again sorry...they're just a few of my thoughts.