BDSM And Feminism: Intertwined? How So?

[hopperboo]

I do not consider myself a feminist.

Definition of one? Hmm...I'd say a woman who concerns herself with her career rather than her husband and children. A woman who wants to 'run the show' at home. A woman who thinks she is 'equal in all ways' to a man. A woman isn't an exact equal to a man. Men and women are different, and instead of embracing that difference and becoming equal on that 'different' ground they rebel at any idea they can't do ANY job just as well as a man. The fact is men and women do different jobs better than the other. It's a hard fact of life. That is why there aren't any Navy SEAL females. (Durrr).

And just to make myself clear I don't believe women shouldn't have jobs or careers. However, I DO think that the marriage and children come first. If things are going badly at home then perhaps it's time to take a break and focus on the vows one took and the children that were brought into the world.

My views on feminism are negative for the most part. Yes, I think it did bring some rights and respect for women that were long past due, but at what cost? Our world is falling apart and I think a lot of that is to do with the feminist movement. Marriages are breaking up left and right, children are left with babysitters or other day care providers instead of being raised by the parents.

I think men like be chased by an aggressive woman rather than than chasing the woman (romantically). Which is a total bite for us women that WANT to be chased. It makes me sad.