"Do not ask the stones or the trees how to live , they can not tell you ; they do not have tongues, do not ask the wise man how to live for, if he knows, he will know he cannot tell you; if you would learn how to live, do not ask the question, its answer is not in the question but in the answer, which is not in words; do not ask how to live, but, instead, proceed to do so."
Marauders of Gor - Page 9

Goldendawn: My own bad time happened amazingly before I embraced my inner kajira, since then i have found real strength.

I would have to say that weather or not one truely embraces Gorean philosophies, that there are many who prey on submissives, I am if anything less likely to fall those types of people now.

Without truth honor and love any relationship is dommed; Gorean or otherwise.