most bdsm acts are humilating ( or degrading) in part because you have been trained by society to repress the said act for what ever reason. Having a Dom/me(top) MAKE you do what ever humilating act it is that they are making you do, takes the responsibility off of you and puts it on them, (ie: I am not a slut I am doing it because my Dom is making me.... I am not bi I am only doing it to please my Dom.. etc...)The humilating act , what ever it might be. is a way of training you, but if you evaluate almost any thing you have been taught in your life, you would find that humilating you was part of that training,(ie: do not pick your nose, it is disgusting, you should be ashamed of yourself..do not masterbate , it is unclean( or what ever it is you were told) and again...you should be ashamed of yourself...etc..We expect to do acts that socitey has deemed wrong to be humilating , the personal pleasure we derive from it something to be desired, but we have been trained to believe most things we desire are wrong.. Just my 2 cents, given an 4:30 am.so take that into account when reading this ~Wyked~