Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post
Pearlgem,

Try this and see if you begin to understand.

Grab you nipple, and squeeze hard. (You don't have to if you already know what it feels like.)

Now... carress your nipple and start stroking your clit and as you get more and more turned on, start to slowly squeeze it... harder and harder... by the time you get to the point of no return and start cumming, you should be squeezing nipple as hard as you can stand.

Next time... be squeezing even harder as you cum.

Pretty soon, you'll want help... someone who can either free up your hand so you can attend to both nipples at once... or someone who can deal with your nipples for you.

Let us know how the demonstation works for ya.
Sure it works. BDSM 101. Let me rephrase then. Is it possible to eroticise severe pain given as punishment and not intended to be erotic? I am learning to tolerate this type of pain but boy, it'd be good to learn to love it.