How do you feel dominating someone who's been previously harmed in some way?

[Kuskovian]

My question is for those partners - how do you feel dominating someone who has suffered a trauma, and how to you deal with your feelings?

It is sometimes a feeling like that akin to holding the entire universe in one's hands.

How could I possibley withdraw from her myself when others have been so cruel, her need of me is paramont as much as my need of her.

In a way it sometimes seems much more difficult yet it is also much more rewarding.

On those days when I am tempted to falter in my resolve; I am reminded, every time I look upon her, just why I am doing it to begin with and redouble my efforts.

The tender look of love in her eyes is allways motivation enough.