Should I be mad when the first that comes out of a Doms' mouth is about BDSM/sex?

[bambina]

I suppose. you just sound so evil when you say it. I don't like the idea but I know that the idea isn't wrong. When in Rome. Still, I suppose I wanted to be among people who would take it upon themselves to introduce themselves and be courteous regardless of their intentions. I may not specify exactly what I want but I would think that that's all the more reason to be courteous upon meeting me (since one does not know what I want).

I have very high regard for this site and the people on it. Never have I been part of such a polite, organized, understanding community. But this is one aspect of it that irks me. I can't expect the site to be perfect I suppose. And the guys who behave this way aren't exactly wrong. They are just tapping at my pet peeve.

[DesertDom]

I suppose. you just sound so evil when you say it. I don't like the idea but I know that the idea isn't wrong. When in Rome. Still, I suppose I wanted to be among people who would take it upon themselves to introduce themselves and be courteous regardless of their intentions. I may not specify exactly what I want but I would think that that's all the more reason to be courteous upon meeting me (since one does not know what I want).

I have very high regard for this site and the people on it. Never have I been part of such a polite, organized, understanding community. But this is one aspect of it that irks me. I can't expect the site to be perfect I suppose. And the guys who behave this way aren't exactly wrong. They are just tapping at my pet peeve.

In thinking about this a bit, in general women have to endure a lot of odd comments and suggestions and being stared at just walking down the street, sitting in a restaurant and so on.

Given the representative population of a slightly non mainstream fourm, why should it be any different here? And given with how we are bombarded with nude women in suggestive positions on every page, how does that help one who comes to talk ?

If your not interested in playing via chat, make your intentions known right off. Probably the best you can do if you intend to hang around.