Should I be mad when the first that comes out of a Doms' mouth is about BDSM/sex?

[bambina]

Ozme52, as Daumon pointed out, this is a personal site unlike sites that deal with Dogs, motorcyles, and music. And, on those sites, people aren't 'looking' for intimacy. whether they stumble upon it or not is their business, but I can safely say that people don't sign up on puppy forums to find fuck-mates. Don't you think finding a significant other (long term or short) is personal? On a Motorcycle site, you're not prying into one's personal life. You are simply looking for like-minded people. People on a Motorcycle site usually don't have any intention on meeting anyone. I'd love to see a conversation that says "Hey you have a BMW bike? 'I' have a BMW bike! Pull out your webcam. Lemme see it. Aw yea that's sweet. Now look at mine. Yea you like that huh? We should met so that I can see yours in person and touch and feel it and ride it." On a site like this, we take it a step forward.

As relaxed as society is about things of a sexual nature, sex is still taboo in some ways. And some people aren't use to talking about sex like that. But even if they were, that still wouldn't make a difference. Let's say a guy and a girl meet at a bar and click. Immediately they know they are going to have sex. They know the other person wants to have sex and they know that they both came there FOR sex. But do they say "Hey do you wanna come over to my place and have sex?" No. They say "Do you want to get out of here?" "Do you want to come over to may place for some coffee?" "Do you want to go to my place and hang out for a bit?" Or they both might stay silent and have an understanding of what's going to happen. Even if it's written all over each parties face, people don't talk about sex like that REGARDLESS of the atmosphere. We still use different terms to describe sex online, too. I know that all of you understand the term "fun" on a site like this. When you hear someone say "Wanna have some fun?" online you know what they are talking about and they are NOT talking about signing onto yahoo to play chess. Even on a site dedicated to things of a sexual variety, a lot of people still don't come out and say that they just want to have sex. Some might. But most don't. And those few 'some' are the people that I'm talking about on this thread. I believe that since this is a personal site, that's all the more reason for one to take care in how they approach others. And that's all I'm saying.

[Ozme52]

Ozme52, as Daumon pointed out, this is a personal site unlike sites that deal with Dogs, motorcyles, and music. And, on those sites, people aren't 'looking' for intimacy. whether they stumble upon it or not is their business, but I can safely say that people don't sign up on puppy forums to find fuck-mates. Don't you think finding a significant other (long term or short) is personal? On a Motorcycle site, you're not prying into one's personal life. You are simply looking for like-minded people. People on a Motorcycle site usually don't have any intention on meeting anyone. I'd love to see a conversation that says "Hey you have a BMW bike? 'I' have a BMW bike! Pull out your webcam. Lemme see it. Aw yea that's sweet. Now look at mine. Yea you like that huh? We should met so that I can see yours in person and touch and feel it and ride it." On a site like this, we take it a step forward.

As relaxed as society is about things of a sexual nature, sex is still taboo in some ways. And some people aren't use to talking about sex like that. But even if they were, that still wouldn't make a difference. Let's say a guy and a girl meet at a bar and click. Immediately they know they are going to have sex. They know the other person wants to have sex and they know that they both came there FOR sex. But do they say "Hey do you wanna come over to my place and have sex?" No. They say "Do you want to get out of here?" "Do you want to come over to may place for some coffee?" "Do you want to go to my place and hang out for a bit?" Or they both might stay silent and have an understanding of what's going to happen. Even if it's written all over each parties face, people don't talk about sex like that REGARDLESS of the atmosphere. We still use different terms to describe sex online, too. I know that all of you understand the term "fun" on a site like this. When you hear someone say "Wanna have some fun?" online you know what they are talking about and they are NOT talking about signing onto yahoo to play chess. Even on a site dedicated to things of a sexual variety, a lot of people still don't come out and say that they just want to have sex. Some might. But most don't. And those few 'some' are the people that I'm talking about on this thread.

You miss the point.

And are 100% wrong. Lot's of people on those sites do meet up. I can attest to that regarding motorcycle sites.

If you're not looking for like-minded people here, what is it exactly you expect to find?

Have you read the threads here? Between introductions, personals, and information sharing, that's exactly what people are looking for. Potential bdsm partners.

I believe that since this is a personal site, that's all the more reason for one to take care in how they approach others. And that's all I'm saying.

Hardly. There was virtually nothing in the original post about being careful. It was all about not liking the style.