Quote Originally Posted by bambina View Post
This is something that really puts me off (and also why I'm having such difficulty finding a Dom). I really hate it when a Dom just meets me (online, not in real life yet), and immediately brings up BDSM. As in, what I'm into, what I've done, what I look like, etc.


I understand your annoyance at this. I do not think there is any harm in wanting people who can talk about other things than sex and BDSM, and who grasp that you need a bit of a look at the person behind these interests.

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