Quote Originally Posted by bambina View Post
Is it too much to ask for the same courtesies one would get if they met me on the street? Even if a guy were at a club on a mission to get laid that night, he wouldn't go up to a girl and immediately ask her if she takes it up the ass. No. He'd say hi. maybe buy her a drink. compliment her on her appearance. Ask her about herself. You know, make small talk before getting to the nitty gritty. Regardless of a guys intentions, they try to be a LITTLE courteous in real life.
You forget where you are. If you were in a photography club (or forum,) the first thing out of their mouths would be questions about your equipment. If you were in the kennel club... what kind of dog do you have? I belong to a motorcycle forum... and you know what? No one asks me about sex... or photography... or even my dog. They ask about motorcycles.

About the ONLY place where you get small talk is indeed the street... and that's only because those are the rules for the street... where there is no common ground to fall back on... so you get asked questions to establish common ground.

Don't try to change the rules just because this is happens to be a sexually oriented site.