I've dated vanilla a lot. No it doesn't make me happy, never did. But, how do you know this guy is vanilla? Have you talked to him about it? I just want to make sure you haven't assumed. My best friend of 7 years was a Dom, and I had no idea. He didn't know I was a sub. We never talked about that part of our lives. We talk about it all the time now, I'm wearing His collar.

It's not something you wanna bring up on a first date or anything, but it's worth it to find out. To top that off, go on a date with the guy! It's good for you to get out and enjoy yourself. Get dressed up and have some fun. Even if it's not going to turn out to be a life long relationship, why deny yourself some fun and enjoyment?