There's nothing wrong with dating vanilla in my opinion. I do it frequently; however, it ends with a hug and a thank you at the door. Like Doll said, it's good to get out for an evening of fun. I date different men for different reasons, one enjoys dances, another enjoys the theatre, one other loves to go to flea markets, and still another loves four-wheeling. If I could put them all together and add "loves to dominate and get kinky," I'd be thoroughly happy. hehe

Whilst I've thrown extremely subtle hints and tried to pick their brain to see if they are or could be potential Doms, I've never had the nerve to come right out and ask any of them if they would enjoy dominating a woman.

One of them, however, knows my preferences, I'm sure.

The outdoorsman, with whom I have great arguments, has called me a "spoiled brat" and said "you need a good spanking." Whilst I've nodded vehemently, it's never happened. lol

I'm guessing the dates will always end with a hug at the door, but at least I've had great fun.