I continue to date vanilla because I don't know many kinky folks. Of course my desires go much deeper than merely fucking but I take what I can get. I'm not at the stage yet where I can no longer get off from vanilla sex.

I do try to work in as much kink as I can. Just about every girl I've been with responds well to me "taking charge". Sometimes I'm able to get away with stuff like choking and face slapping.

I'm young enough that most of the girls I date aren't looking for commitment right away. Most of them are arty types who are open minded and willing to "try anything once". I still haven't turned anyone out yet but I've got my fingers crossed.