I'm a sub, sinderella, but I will try to answer anyway. Personally I am a very jealous person, and would not be able to share a Master with other subs. My current Master not only understands this, but expresses that He does not want or desire to have any other subs. He would also never want to share me with another Dom. I think there are many subs here in similar relationships. You can often have a long-term committed relationship/marriage with your Dom based upon monogamy. I don't think you should feel that you need to settle for a Dom that isn't willing to be exclusive to just you if you don't want to. Keep looking until you find a Master who gives you everything you want and more. They're out there somewhere... good luck babe!!