Why do many BDSM people look down on switches?

[Ninva]

*giggle* LIAR! I can't believe that some part of you doesn't love the firm knowledge that you are you. Sure, you probably spend more time hiding yourself than you like, but when you reveal yourself, the honesty is ample reward!

[voxelectronica]

*giggle* LIAR! I can't believe that some part of you doesn't love the firm knowledge that you are you. Sure, you probably spend more time hiding yourself than you like, but when you reveal yourself, the honesty is ample reward!

NO WAY!

I love being me sure. I totally love myself. I'm awesome incarnate if you ask me but no one gets me. No one suspends their preconceived ideas of one of the things I am to find out about another thing i am and how they work together.

"oh you're a republican who is pro life then you are obviously one of those religious people who want to take over America."

"oh you're a satanist? well then obviously you are a devil worshiper"

"oh you're bi well then you're just greedy and can't make up your mind"...

The worse is when i get it out that I'm gay and gender queer and a republican... then I'm "self loathing" or "stupid and confused".

No I'd rather be normal and fit into a box so people wouldn't get mad at *me* for their own stupidity. It's rather boring and I hate it.