how to spot an arsehole

[DIXIE LASS]

If a dom ever says, "I'm polyamorous, but I don't allow my subs to be", don't just run from the building, but set it on fire as you leave.

I can think of something else I'd like to set fire to when I hear this one. This one has to be the lowest of the low, the MOST unforgivable, beyond the pale, a mortal sin.

DIXIE

Why? Lots of other things in D/s relationships are not equal; why is this a bottom-line requirement? In fact, if you read the polyamory thread, there are quite a few subs who say something like, I belong to Master alone; Master does as He pleases. This wouldn't suit me, but I don't see why it's totally different from a lot of other inequalities in these interactions.

Rache,
Why do you always give me a hard time?

1. I'm speaking from a personal perspective. I'm only agreeing with Tessa.
Apparently this is a "bottom-line requirement" for both Tessa and me.

2. I'm not much of a sub to begin with and I guess this is one of the reasons
why I'm not. If there are some out there willing to accept this, I could
care less, but I don't pretend to be able to conceive of the way lots of
subs think and I'm certainly not looking around for a D/s relationship.

3. This particular attitude is just particularly outrageous and offensive. It
seems to me to be the highest kind of selfishness. Unadulterated
arrogance. Maybe it's because menage between me and only males is
MY fantasy. Why the hell should I give that up? After a
crack like this, an Ass-Dom-Hole would be lucky if I even let him
participate.

DIXIE