Isn't exactly on-topic, but it's a sign you're talking with the wrong guy: If you're chatting with someone and you just know that he's at the same time having conversations with at least 3 other people.
Back when i still was interested a wee little tiny bit in getting to know Doms for more than just chatting, one even called me the wrong name once. Probably got all his chat-windows mixed up
At least i knew that i didn't need to bother with that guy anymore.