what makes a rubbish sub?

[claire]

Here is an article I have in my file that may help to answer some, if not all of these questions. It used to be on Steel Door, but is no longer on Her site.

Submissive Frenzies

Submissive Frenzies are a state or condition that many if not all submissives will experience at one time or another. ...

Thank-you so much for this article. It is what I am going through now. I embarrassed myself once while in a milder frenzy and have fantasized about doing something that would have embarrassed me again. Fortunately/unfortunately I am very introverted, shy and insecure, so I tend to live in my head. That means I am slow to act and extremely passive, but it also means that I build castles in the air, with little basis in reality. Anyway, it helps to recognize what I am experiencing for what it is.