Why 'slut' ?

[Laila]

I totally agree with what is said - I, too, like to be called slut (or rather his slut or his little slut) but only by my Master and in the right circumstances. It can be very erotic - but like yama, I tend to prefer loving term (little one, his rose etc.).

I think what got me in this funk was that after I lost my Master, I have surfed the net for - I don't know - look what's out there. And so many Masters don't treat submissive with any respect at all.
It might be for someone but I personally choose very carefully who is allowed to call me a slut and that always under the deeper knowledge that really, I am completely his and he is mine. I am still a human being worth just as much as any Dom or any sub...

[Zarine13]

And so many Masters don't treat submissive with any respect at all.

That is so true. I am very new to this and I had a hard and fast lesson in it.

I think the thing is, some of them don't care or understand that it up to us to give them permission to call us a name like that. The use of 'girl' or something similar is ok IMO, but the moment it goes to 'bitch' or 'slut' and they don't have my permission.. then that's it.

Some of them seem to think that just because they call themselves Dominant, they can automatically do whatever they want with online submissives.

[good_girl]

I totally agree with what is said - I, too, like to be called slut (or rather his slut or his little slut) but only by my Master and in the right circumstances. It can be very erotic - but like yama, I tend to prefer loving term (little one, his rose etc.).

I am Sirs baby girl most of the time, it is only under the right circumstances that you mentioned that I am his slut.

I think what got me in this funk was that after I lost my Master, I have surfed the net for - I don't know - look what's out there. And so many Masters don't treat submissive with any respect at all.
It might be for someone but I personally choose very carefully who is allowed to call me a slut and that always under the deeper knowledge that really, I am completely his and he is mine. I am still a human being worth just as much as any Dom or any sub...

Those so called Masters who don't have respect IMO are the wannabes I mentioned earlier. When you meet a true Master, your Master, not only will he treat you with respect, he will insist you treat yourself with respect, he will see your value and treasure it.

[Twisted32]

My Master, who is my (now) Fiancee of two years, and I have MUCH respect for each other. When he calls me Slut, its normally when we play but normally I am "Pet" and SOMETIMES "slave" ( although he NEVER calls me slave in front of my girls...) when we are playing. Slut doesn't bother much really because if ANYTHING, I am BY FAR NOT what the definition of what a slut is. The ACTUAL definition of one describes that of a "sexually promiscuous woman" and I am not. Unless my Master desires me to sleep with or play with another or decides to share me, I wont even be a slut then because it is HIS wish.

He is my TRUE Master (and love of my life) and when he calls me "slut" sometimes I smile because if anyone else were to call me that, they'd get knocked on their asses, either by me ( who Master has trained in self defense) or by Master who would knock their teeth down their throats for disrespecting his property.

[leah06]

I think what got me in this funk was that after I lost my Master, I have surfed the net for - I don't know - look what's out there. And so many Masters don't treat submissive with any respect at all.
It might be for someone but I personally choose very carefully who is allowed to call me a slut and that always under the deeper knowledge that really, I am completely his and he is mine. I am still a human being worth just as much as any Dom or any sub...

You know, it's OK to just tell the person this. I wouldn't just assume someone's an asshole because he applies a certain vocabulary too soon - but I would if he continued after I told him to stop.