I'm 5' 2" and 105 lb. I probably couldn't fight my way out a wet paper sack. It's funny to see me topping a man because he's invariably taller and twice, if not 3 times, my weight. It's even funnier to see me doing it dressed like a school girl and making his knees buckle with my bare hand, but I digress. *ggls* Anyway, the best analogy I can come up with at the moment is horseback riding. Maybe it has something to do with the fact that I like to ride my male subbie friend around the dungeon like a pony. *grins* Anyone who's ever ridden a horse has to wonder why such a large, powerful, and intelligent creature would obey the whims of the puny human upon it's back. It's not as if the horse doesn't know it could unseat you at any moment. In fact, some of them like to remind you that they could, indeed, knock you off on the nearest tree or go where they want by taking the bit in their teeth. Where was I going with this? Um....the horse chooses not to kill its rider....just as the sub chooses to obey. I have to admit, though, that I enjoy a bit of physicality on occasion when I'm subbing. *smiles* It's fun to be picked up and flipped this way and that way like I'm little more than a rag doll. Rawr!
*Rag doll.....Daddy's little cutie*