Topping from the Bottom?

[BryansGrrrl]

As for expressing a preference, my late slave-wife would have said things like "It'd be horrible if you twisted those clamps as well as pull them," or "I couldn't bear it if you used the cane instead of the flogger" - what we called "briar-patch suggestions," as in "don't throw me in the..."

I just LOVE Uncle Remus. And this is a great suggestion!

The hardest thing to teach my slaves is that keeping information from me - about their feelings, about their needs - is disobedience. A good slave tells hir Master the things he needs to know to get the best from hir.

This really is a difficult thing. I still have difficulty in denying Him something that I even suspect that He might want. If I am not interested in pursuing something... I sort of wait to see what He feels about it before voicing my own opinion. It is a very bad habit that I'm trying very hard to break myself of.