Quote Originally Posted by Flaming_Redhead View Post
Instead of working on a way to "make"" him go, why don't you try asking him why he's so opposed to it?
sorry, i guess i didn't clarify very well. i have asked, and he gives a non detailed response of "it's just not my thing" and that's where the discussion ends, even if i ask more questions.

it isn't that i want to "make" him go, i just am sad that he doesn't realize what a wonderful opportunity there is to expand horizons. i showed some pictures from shibaricon, and he was really impressed ,and said he would love to try that with me. but if he won't go to shibaricon, or hang with people who know about rope bondage, how can he ever learn to do it? i wouldn't be so frustrated about it if he had hadn't expressed interest in so many bdsm related activites. but honestly, you have learn from somewhere, but you have to go to that somewhere to learn. i just wish i could let him see how much opportunity there is in bdsm