Quote Originally Posted by thir View Post
I would like to add a question: does anyone feel that these things change with time and circumstances?
An interesting question I look forward to hearing answers to....

...for, from the perspective of a die-hard dominant, I would say yes, it has to. Even for me, what I look for in a sub changes with time and circumstances. I'm lucky to have a girl who grows and changes with me.

It would appear, from my perspective, that folk who are less rigid in their D/s orientation are going to be even more open to such changes.

But that's me, looking in from the outside.