I can tell you, It has always been my nature to please and to try and follow my gut and logic to do right. Not to mention, as a child playing with toys, I always have dreamed of being bound and being taken. even before I knew what taken was.

I also had a conversation today with a fellow here,
He said the subs are socially developed and slaves are born

he also believed, the the same applies with masters and doms, the doms are socially developed and masters are born.

So knowing what all I crave that others do not, is extreme ( not measured by pain) but measured in giving and receiving.