Many I have talked to, or had in RL where used by thier dad, or bothers, or other family member, although I tell my self not to think this way, but I find my self thinking all subs or slaves were used by some one in the family at a very young age,, I do know this is not true, still, all I have talked to, or owned had, I see this as one way for a female or male for that matter, find them selves needing to be used in order to live,,,