@VaAugusta thankyou!

@Snark nope, like I said, nothing beyond 'heavy petting'

I've modeled with the girl before... the thing is that I think I should have seen this coming (I'm rather gullible, and slow on the uptake at times *sigh*) she's recommended photographers to me that she'll vehemently talk down on months later and has sent me random txts that say "I'm so traumatized!" with no follow up even when I txt back asking what has her so traumatized... it's like pulling teeth getting answers from her a lot of the time.

Anyways, conclusion thus far is that I've deleted her off my fb, talked to some ppl who do and don't also know her ... yes, Snark, a lot of them figured she was bipolar or something long before now (I kept her identity secret from ppl who don't know her... and only remarked on her reaction with ppl who do to keep it confidential)

She txted me varying death threats to which I responded by leaving a voice mail that politely said "I don't appreciate receiving death threats on my phone" ...

now her anger seems to have shifted from both of us equally to more mad at just my partner... something about how her back was to me so I didn't see her object to being touched. Regardless, I haven't blocked her on my phone or on fb... if she ever wants to talk to me again, she has a way to but I'm never going out of my way to contact her.