Your husband sounds like mine. He may be a bit more willing, but not as into it as me, as in craving it. I just joined the forum here today and have a lot to learn I guess. I just know that I have a lot of feelings that seem weird to me and wanted to talk to other people who might feel the same way. My husband is willing to play the role of Master and I have a hard time explaining to him just how hot it makes me. I'm not sure how explicit these posts are supposed to be but last night I left a collar under his pillow and pulled it out so he could put it on me.