Tonight I was in the chatroom and was contacted by someone with whom I have been playing/chatting for a month or so. We were just chatting about work etc when 'he' informed me that it wasn't him at all, but his girlfriend. As you can imagine I was shocked. She was very upset and called me disgusting for entering into an online 'relationship' with someone who already has a girlfriend, and that the things we did on here or on YIM were totally perverted and disgusting (you might have thought that the name of the website would have given that away somewhat - but hey-ho) Anyway, just wanted to warn people - be it ones like me, who know that guys have wives and families and play anyway or guys who know that their wives dont and would never, approve of this type of activity - there are always consequences and maybe, i will in future consider this, albeit briefly before I play, who knows.

The question still needs answering - is this cheating? Not for me because I told my husband, as i felt that not to WOULD constitute a form of cheating and he is fine about it, but for those who sneak on behind partners backs, late at night or in the office - would you or your spouse/partner consider this cheating? and would it cause problems in your relationship if they found out? Interested to hear peoples opinions, as it knocked me for six to be confronted by someone outside the community who was genuinely upset by it all.