The Joys of a High-Maintenace sub

[Ozme52]

It seems counter productive to encourage subs to think of themselves as high-maintenance.

But then... you insist on defining it to suit your own needs. And will probably continue to do so until you meet a high maintenance chicklet who thinks that's what you want.

'Nuff said.

[thrall]

It seems counter productive to encourage subs to think of themselves as high-maintenance.

...................Exactly!.............lol


I don't think of myself as high-maintenance......... and an a normal basis I'm not. And I certainly don't ever want to be considered high-maintenance.

Good Doms however, encourage us to feel our emotions and show them, which in turn makes, ...or at least makes me

.........somewhat........ sad to say......high-maintenance.......LOL

A good Dom wants to know if you are happy or sad. A good Dom wants to know exactly how you are feeling, good or bad. A good Dom wants to know how your day was, and how it is going at the moment. A good Dom wants to know the what is going on inside your head.......

Sometimes the answers are not always the warm fuzzy things in life...........

When I'm crying and sad, I need comfort and love.
When I'm being crazy and unreasonable, I need talking back from the edge.

That is what I consider to be high-maintenance, and not something that I enjoy at all. But they are parts of me. They are the parts that a good Dom should want to see.........and feel

.........which unfortunately sometimes makes me........well you know...........LOL

[Aussiegirl1]

Good Doms however, encourage us to feel our emotions and show them.

A good Dom wants to know if you are happy or sad. A good Dom wants to know exactly how you are feeling, good or bad. A good Dom wants to know how your day was, and how it is going at the moment. A good Dom wants to know the what is going on inside your head.......

I agree. In most situations I am what I consider to be low maintence, but when it comes to D/s and baring my emotions.......... things are different.

I have been taught to accept that all feelings are good, so long as I take the time to explore them. As someone who was very good at burying my feelings, this has been a life changing thought for me.

So if being emotional makes me high maintanence, then that is what I am. I am lucky I have WB to support me in every way I need.

As to the name of the thread, I don't care what it is called, it is the content that is important to me.

[Warbaby1943]

I agree. In most situations I am what I consider to be low maintence, but when it comes to D/s and baring my emotions.......... things are different.

I have been taught to accept that all feelings are good, so long as I take the time to explore them. As someone who was very good at burying my feelings, this has been a life changing thought for me.

So if being emotional makes me high maintanence, then that is what I am. I am lucky I have WB to support me in every way I need.

As to the name of the thread, I don't care what it is called, it is the content that is important to me.

So you know there is no way I consider you high maintenance at all.

[Aussiegirl1]

So you know there is no way I consider you high maintenance at all.

Thank you Master

[Rhabbi]

It seems counter productive to encourage subs to think of themselves as high-maintenance.

But then... you insist on defining it to suit your own needs. And will probably continue to do so until you meet a high maintenance chicklet who thinks that's what you want.

'Nuff said.

I believe the term you are looking for is tongue in cheek. I am willing to stick by my definition here. Also, I would like to point out that I am not encouraging subs to be high-maintenance, I am simply pointing out the fact that they are.

Since you seem to prefer the type of sub who does not get emotionally involved, or who allows a Dom to treat her any way he likes, you are free to find that type. As I said before, I prefer a bit of a challenge.

[Ozme52]

I believe the term you are looking for is tongue in cheek. I am willing to stick by my definition here. Also, I would like to point out that I am not encouraging subs to be high-maintenance, I am simply pointing out the fact that they are.

Me looking for a term? My vocabulary is quite fine thank you very much.

Are you now claiming you've said this as tongue in cheek? Or just confused about my comment?

Since you seem to prefer the type of sub who does not get emotionally involved, or who allows a Dom to treat her any way he likes, you are free to find that type. As I said before, I prefer a bit of a challenge.

You obviously know nothing about me. Tell you what. I'll refrain from making further comments on your opinions as I seem to make you uncomfortable.