Isabelle - I'm fortunate in some ways. I have a real-life relationship with him. Because of distance we are unable to see each other often, but when we do...yes, it's that good.
And my children are almost grown. They are beginning their own lives now and will only be at home another year or two. (Yep, I'm an old lady.)
If my husband found and then divorced me, would I have a more open relationship with Him? Well, yes and no. I'd see him more often, that's for sure, but he too is married and committed to that marriage so it isn't as if we'd be together always and live happily everafter. But, the time we spend together is so intense, so completely real and so bone-deep satisfying for me that I'm happy with what I get. Very happy with what I get.![]()