Quote Originally Posted by GearJammer{kuriouspet} View Post
Annie, I don't know if I'm "supposed" to be taken seriously or not, as I don't exist "in the lifestyle" as it is "defined" in the "box thinking" version. However, from my perspective, it is a Dom's responsibility to see to the safety of his sub, no matter what her state of mind when she comes to him. I believe that he is called to rise above those circumstances and protect her anyway, and I brook no violation of that intent. I speak, of course, only for myself, and thus for my expectation of others.

Gear
well said GearJammer, it's too bad the wannabe's could care less about the subs welfare and hence the danger

i do think i have to agree with annie - if these gurls are truly dumb enough to put themselves out there with the 'i'll do anything' attitude without first learning what that means, then they too have to be responsible for themselves which unfortunately too many young people today don't think they have to (sound old much? lol). they put themselves out there teasing with photos and text to gain as much attention as possible and then have the nerve to be 'hurt' when it doesn't go their way - they are no more submissive than i am Dom.

i have watched many of these types of gurls come and go in chat rooms 'pretending they don't know what they're doing' batting eyelashes, asking stupid questions that even my daughter would know the answer to - feigning stupidity to gain attention - what's worse is watching Every man (real and wannabe included) falling over themselves to 'help' *rolls eyes* and even more so if they are of the 18 to 20 year old variety lmao so bloody obvious