So if tomorrow your dom, or domme which ever the case maybe decided they no longer wanted a d/s relationship would you be able to conduct a vanilla relationship with them?

I ask simply because this is what happened to me. I had been collared to my husband for a very long time when one day he woke up and decided he no longer wanted. We still have kinky sex. I'm trying my best, but I have a deep seeded resentment against him for doing this. I feel betrayed. I'm just not sure if I can live like this and be truly happy. Perhaps love and devotion isn't enough? Are these natural feelings you can imagine you would experience in the same situation or am I being selfish only looking at my own needs?