There is without a doubt, no doubt, if I were to be single and looking, I would not even consider a non Lifer...UNLESS she were already into kink, and just needed that push.

I waited to damn long to find Myself, and wouldnt risk getting lost again.

But THANKFULLY......I'm not, and dont have to worry as I'm fortunate My wife became Mine..........now as for friends, Wwe arent really interested in non lifers either.