Quote Originally Posted by NatalieD View Post
dynamicbuttler, BDSM isn't just about sex. I agree with you other than that, though. ^_^
I never said BDSM was just about sex. What I did say, and will say it until my last dying breath, is that a practitioner of BDSM should have a life outside of his BDSM life. I know that if I were with a domme, I'd want to be treated as subservient and as a submissive, but I'd also care about her non-BDSM interests. I care about people's taste in music, books, TV and philosophy: Those things are important. But to some people, outside this culture there is nothing of interest. They live in a fantasy world, and it's pathetic. Why do people always think I'm being an ass when I'm just being realistic?