Quote Originally Posted by Ozme52 View Post

I'll tell you what thrills me. After a long play session... in the shower, washing up, I get soaped, rinsed, hair washed, conditioned. I turn, gaze into her eyes, lean in, shift my stance to "invade" her personal space (yes even in a shower you have personal space) and whisper in her ear. What thrills me? The shock in her eyes... the way her mouth ovals as she gasps "Oh!" as her body totally surprises her... cumming... and then I tell her I won't let her fall and her orgasm overwhelms her.

After that... my voice is in her head.
um, wow. I think when my husband gets home I'll suggest that we need a shower.

I would like to know more about the orgasm-on-demand aspect of this conversation, honestly. During sex we often play the "not until I tell you" game, and I can cum on demand because I've been needing to for a while already. But I've heard about people who can cum on a vocal cue or from non-direct stimulation (one guy swore he could make his gf climax by biting her shoulder, through the magic of conditioned responses). Is that something you can learn to do? What's the training process like?