My woman whom I've been getting extremely serious with online is married. But I've got something he doesn't, access to the real her. I don't feel the least bit bad about it, to be honest. And neither does she. I won't go into public detail about someone else's marriage but as a generalization, I think peopel try and romanticize marriage into the be-all, end-all where you find one person who fulfills each and every single need you could possibly have.

I'm sorry, that's one in a million fairly tale stuff. Do some people find it? Yes, they do. But not all marriages are that way, nor should they realistically be expected to be.

The only cheating as far as I'm concerned would have been if she'd continued to leave herself in a position where she had to cheat herself out of being who she really is.

Can you love more than one person at once? Of course you can. Anyone who has more than one child can answer that question (I should hope). Do I feel like we've done anything wrong? Not in the least. If that makes me the bad guy in some people's eyes, so be it.